Flaming gay guy

I’m starting to volenteer at a local gay teen gathering place, and I got a call from the acting director to fix up an interview. On the phone he sounded almost stereotypical and it made me uncomfortable. I wasn’t sure why then, so I decided to sit down and puzzle out why now, before I actually meet him.

I came to the finding that having a male lover guy act like that (and no, I don’t KNOW he is, but it seems a logical conclusion) made me uncomfortable in the same was a black person who was “No sur, massuh, I don know nothin’” all the time would also. That lead me to wonder if there are actually gay men who act like the “comedy gays” for lack of a better word that I’ve seen in movies and TV. I’ve met some gay men before, and they didn’t act that way; is that manner and way of speaking attractive to some people?

Note: Anything that sounds judgemental in this post isn’t meant to be at all. I’m honestly curious about this, because it would look that not acting this way would reduce the possibility of people reacting negatively to you(unless that’s what you want, then ok ; I’d notice it as a chick who wears

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